Blessed are the merciful, for they will obtain mercy.  - Mt 5:7

Reflection.  Your readiness to show forth a spirit of forgiveness will have a ripple effect.  You will touch many lives by forgiving one person.  You are anointed, so forget your feelings and go forth.  Say yes I will forgive because the Lord asks it.

Prayer.  Dear Jesus, make my heart like unto Thine; fill me with Your tender love.